TERRY & TEAGAN -PRECIOUS GIFTS FROM HEAVEN

HEARTFELT WORDS WITHIN DINO

2010-04-26T08:58:00.000-07:00

Its me dino blogging today. This blog was managed by my lovely wife in the past but today, I decide to write something here and not because i want to remind myself of the ill feelings and strainous relationship I have with my own family now or to show any unforgiveness or any grudges. It is just for me to pen all these down to express my heartfelt being of the whole matter.

In fact, I am rather immune to how I am being treated as less "competent" compared to the 2 precious daughters of my parents. I am not angry or bitter or frustrated anymore. I know that they are people of such so I have to accept the fact that they are like that. There is no more need to feel upset or affected anymore as nobody can change them unless they are saved by the power of the Holy Spirit. I just want to be a good husband to my wife and a good daddy to my kids, and most importantly, to take my calling seriously, in managing my business according to God's purpose.

On 17 Apr, Pst Kong was preaching & teaching about Forgiveness and my wife suggested to pay a visit to my parents after the service. We know deep in our hearts we have forgiven them even they do not speak fairly for us on all the past incidents, and even as parents, they did not make peace for their children to be loving and happy again. Instead, they told me & esther with their own mouth, that it's ok for us to just say HI to them if we ever meet face to face. Is this a normal family relationship ??

Anyway,we are doing our part by following one of the 10 commandments,i.e. to honour our parents. But just to obey the voice of the Holy Spirit, we went ahead to visit them after the service but co-incidently they were not at home. They have gone to JB with their youngest daughter. The one who messed up the relationship between me & my parents. So we went to pay a visit to the neighbour Aunty Susan.

So, fine, my wife called my dad to let him know we are there but realised they are not at home.
I do not understand why as parents, they fail to realise that, the fact that we appeared at their home on a sat evening is a sign of our first move to make peace with their 2 daughters who had been denying their own misdoings and did not treat us as part of the family anymore. Eventhough it was them who messed up the relationship, we did not want to carry on hating them. We just wanted and hope that the visit on that sat evening will turn the family situation into something positive at least. But too bad, it could not be made happened that day.

On Fri 23 Apr, my mom called esther to ask when we are going over, and asked whether we want to go over on Fri evening. But when esther told her that we intend to go on the next day, i.e. Sat, she was hesitating. She sounded like we are going there to create trouble. Obviously she is more concerned of her 2 daughters' happiness, maybe because she knows that they do not like to see us. So she just try to stop us from going on Sat evening but she does not have the courage to say it.

On sat afternoon on 24 Apr, as we are getting late for service and since it will be too rush if we eat at a shopping mall, Esther suggested that we go to my parents house downstair to buy food up to eat and visit them for a short while before we attend service. After Esther & the 2 boys had gone up to my parent's home, I went to park my car and after that, when I was walking towards my parents' block, I saw a champagne color Chrysler drove past me, and I noticed that was the husband of my parents' youngest daughter. He gave me that "who are you " look and drove away after that and I did not see them coming up to my parents house at all. Any human being in the right mind will understand that they want to avoid us. So what else can we do ?

The eldest daughter even ignored us when we once met her at Anchorpoint last year. She totally behaved as though we were strangers to her. Once when we visited my parents and she was there, she left immediately when she saw us.

God, I am not going to bother about all these as I know that I cant do anything to change this situation. Only you my Heavenly Father can make things possible if YOU want it to happen for the good of your child. God, I want to put my heart & soul into ISE that you have called me for this business. I need to focus and do well and bring Glory to your Mighty Glorious Name.

Esther & I are waiting for my father to initiate himself if he really wish to have a birthday celebrated by his son & his daughters together as a family if he still remember me who is his only son. God, you know that I am BROKE. I am waiting upon you for more C.O.D. orders and to increase my income from my Business to pay the list of outstanding bills. I do not have cash and have limited credit facilities to buy my dad a proper Birthday meal. He is somebody who expects a sumptous meal for his birthday every year. Last year, we ate with him without his 2 daughters and he told my youngest aunty that he is not happy to celebrate his birthday in this manner. But God, why are my parents not doing anything about their childrens' horrible relationship ? What else can I do but to just leave everything to YOU God.

I thank you I still have YOU who is my Heavenly Father, my Help in times of needs, my comforter and my fortress. I thank you for my wife Esther and my 2 boys Terry & Teagan. They are the reason for me to keep pressing on and moving on. But YOU are my only Strength and Purpose. I know you dislike it when I stop trying, or regret, or waste and be ungrateful for what You have been providing us. So Lord, I just want to tell you I am waiting upon You and I am believing & expecting from You a Great miracle that my storehouse couldnt contain but to share it as a blessings to others.

27 Apr 2010 12.40 am.
Thank you Lord.

2009-04-01T02:22:00.000-07:00

Happy April Fool's Day to all. Time flies ! its already Apr 2009. Been super duper busy for the past few months..LIfe is so full of mixed feelings ! Lots of happenings lately and the current economy is affecting us too, especially Dino as he is in business. But with Teagan around, somehow we find relief to our mental stress when we look at him. Time & time again, we wonder whether dino should press on or to give up. If he find a job, how long can it last ? What kind of boss he will encounter ? People who are happily and comfortability working as a employee all their life will not understand his pain. Our only hope is God will really hear our prayers and get us out of this turmoil soon. God, where are You ? Can You hear us ? We remember how much You have helped us with Teagan during my pregnancy. We want to stand strong by Faith and by your Grace.. but we are only human. We are seeking God's Grace & Mercy to hear our prayer and deliver us from these emotional & mental anxieties. What else can we do but just to trust Him and expect a Miracle soon.

LOVE ONE ANOTHER....

2009-01-02T08:53:00.000-08:00

here are some of the recent nice pics of our family that we are glad to share with...
Thru these pics, you readers will be able to feel how loving we are as a family. hehe..

Happy 2009 !

2008-12-31T08:00:00.000-08:00

HaPPy NeW YeaR 2009 to all readers of our Blog. Imagine how fast it is that 2008 is gone.
Lately i have not updated this blog as been too preoccupied with family & work. These days...every evening have to pick up Terry & Teagan from 2 different venues after work. But really have to thank God for all His wonderful plans for us. Terry to be happily settled down at the Right place for him "Baptist student care" and Teagan being look after by the Right Babysitter..Madam Wee. We are really so happy that Teagan is perfectly well taken care by aunty who is so good and loving to him. Teagan has put on much weight eversince he is being babysitted by Mdm Wee from Sep onwards.

2008 has been a really stressful year for me & Dino. It was lovely in the beginning after the arrival of Teagan in Nov 2007...the first few months of 2008 was indeed great ! My in-laws were very supportive and they helped us look after Teagan and love the 2 kids very much. We appreciate them very much and we could get along very well. When Dino's mom fall sick in June and diagnosed with cancer, I was very shocked in the beginning and felt so sorry for her and I asked God why a good woman like her will kena this sickness and Dino & I also wanted to bring her to church but she is very resistant about it. We also suggested to get a maid to look after Teagan at her place and she can just be there to supervise the maid and our intention is to lighten her workload of looking after Teagan, and the maid can help in cooking and household chores at her place as well. But unfortunately, our good intention is not recognised and was turned down by dino's father..so no choice. Dino's mom suggested that we let her neighbour look after Teagan and because we know she loves Teagan and want to have a chance to see him everyday if her neighbour look after him, we agree and accept her idea just to make her feel happy. Unfortunately, sometime in July or Aug, the relationship between us & Dino's parents started to become "bad" because of 2 nasty women. These 2 women are none but Dino's very own sisters. They are really good in acting...so good that I think they should be labled"The great Pretenders". If not becos of them, the relationship between dino's parents & us will remain good.
Towards the last few months of 2008, we have been reflecting and feeling very upset that why our relationship with Dino's parents has become a distant and why they never realise that their daughters are the one who has tore us apart from them. Why are they so supportive towards the 2 women are are married off and still come back and be kpo all the time ? What kind of parents they are ? Dino is their only son.. Don't they know it themselves. Sorry I have to speak in this manner but this is a true fact that I just have to speak up. Dino told me that there is no genuine love in his family. In their mind, money is everything. There are many incidents that made us feel that money is more important to them than the love of humanity and relationships.
It's really very pain and hurting to know the true facts that they are such people. I am coping well because afterall, they are just my "in-laws" but for Dino, he feel extremely hurt and upset because they are his immediate family...he told me that they have changed very much and become very materialistic. That's why whatever we do can never satisfy them...so what can we do.

For frens and my own family members who know about the incident, all supported us very much and feel that there's really nothing we have to do since people are like that and it's beyond our control. We shall not let this hurt stay in our hearts anymore and we decided to let them go... as far as possible. We also pray and hope that these people could kindly just leave us alone too. What's the point of pretending and acting ? If they dislike us, do let us go rather than to act act and act. Dont they feel tired of acting. THey dont but we are...no thanks to acting... PLEASEEEE....we have enough. Pls torlong torlong give us a break. Dont call me "da sao" anymore and at the same time give me that nasty stare. I feel even more hurt when such people call me "da sao" just for the sake of calling me in front of the parents while they dont really accept me as their sister-in-law in their hearts. What's the point of addressing me "da sao" and then give me a nasty look and later just ignore and remain silence. One is silent but the other who tried very hard to talk but actually she is only talking to Terry just to mislead her own parents to make them feel that she is being very nice. I really want to laugh. They dont even address their "brother", then how come they have a da sao ?? What a joke man.
So anyway, they want to call me da sao, i just answer them "em" thats all just as a response. But in my heart, i know that I know i am not a da sao in people's eye and I dont give it a damn anyway. It sounds like I am not forgiving them.. well, but it's ok. To me, i have no more feelings..let alone talk abt forgiving. I dont think they worth anything for me to feel angry so that's nothing to be forgiven at all. Hahaha.

After I post this into our blog, I shall not talk abt them anymore. The reason for writing this is to help myself ease the pain once again that these people had done to me. So thank you that 2008 is coming to an end.

Well, we are so glad that 2008 is over and we welcome 2009 with wide open arms and also believe that God will pour down his Blessings of Abundance to us thru His Windows that is wide open for us too. Lord, we are waiting for that miracle that you are going to bless us with very soon and we cant wait to bless those we love too.

As this Blog was created to dedicate to God, we want to take this opportunity to Thank the Lord and we look forward to a awesome & bountiful year of 2009.

The Foodie 4 at Pasta de Waraku at Square 2

2008-11-25T08:34:00.000-08:00

Yummy Japanese pasta and daddy’s favourite Katsu curry.
We love the food here and the service is good too. What makes me excited is, me & ge ge Terry were given a present each too. I had a jigsaw puzzle and ge ge had a Rainbow spring. I love weekends because I can be with my mommy, daddy & ge ge the whole day. : )

MY FAMILY

2008-11-25T08:19:00.000-08:00

my family. I love my family. Ge ge & me love daddy & mommy. We love one another. Thank u God for blessing us and make us 1 family. :)

Terry new photos

2008-11-25T08:13:00.001-08:00

My brother's turn now. Ge ge Terry did quite well in SA2 and he has promoted to the 2 top classes in P3 next year. Good Job ge ge. I am sure u will continue to do well next year and next time u gonna be my personal FOC tutor. Mom would like post some of ge ge's latest pictures as he has grown taller, catching up with mommy soon. ;p

my new nick name "Yuan yuan" - round

2008-11-25T08:08:00.000-08:00

I am given a new nick name recently by mommy. She cal me Yuan Yuan. Cos eversince Mdm Wee (my nanny) started to babysit me, I have grown to be like a ball. hahaha. I am getting rounder and rounder each day. Mom is very pleased about this. My head is round, my eyes are round, my face is round, my body is also round. see my pictures and u will believe me. :OOOO

2008-11-25T07:49:00.000-08:00

yo few weeks has passed. I have just turned 1 year old 11 days ago. We had a great party at Fiona jie jie's function room @ Palm Gardens. Mom suggested not to have the party at home cos she is very smart... dont have to clean the house after our guests left. hoho. Gotta be as smart as her next time when I grow. Think I should have her genes. I received so many presents and ang pao. Thanks all the aunties and uncles who took time to come for my party. Thanks for your blessings !

On my birthday, we went to my granny's place. There I was given a task to choose an items out of 4. A book, a pencil, a calculator and a biscuit. Guess what catches my eyes ? Of course I wont pick up the biscuit and book as I am so used to meddling with such items. I took the pencil (something I am refrain from taking most of the time as my folks are worried that I will get poke by it) and I also took the calculator(something I seldom play with). My granny says it will more or less be able to predict what I will be when I grow up by what I have chosen. So since I have chosen a pen and a calculator. Heyhey.. means I am going to be a businessman like my daddy. Haha.

And oh yes... on my birthday morning. Mommy wished me Happy Birthday and sang me a birthday song, and put a birthday cake Hatty on my head. (i was not interested to put on earlier when she tried to show me, I like to play with it and pull the candles and strawberries instead) but since it was my day, I do it specially for mommy. So I guai guai wear the hat and let her snap some pictures. I also parade around the house with the birthday cake on my head like a walking birthday cake. haha.

I am so tired of typing...why not have a look at our photos so I dont have to type so much about the recent happeningss ! Look! I have already learnt something from mom. Choose the easier way for convenience sake. hehe.

2008-10-25T11:06:00.000-07:00

Phew.... so fast its almost end of Oct. Been quite sometime mommy did not update our blog.
These days dad & mom are really busy. Every nite they have to pick my brother from student care and then fetch me from my nanny's house. I will be turning 1 year old soon and mommy is planning a small party for me. Thanks mom ! I know u really love me alot.. and I love u too.

This period of time, I have grown very much. I can walk already. In fact I started standing up very steadily when I was only 7 months plus..and every day, i practice standing up and walking around my playpen holding on to the side. By around 9 months, I could actually walk around the coffee table in our hall by holding on to the rim of the table. Around 10 months, I walk like no body business and explore the whole house. How nice it is to be able to do that ! I have also spoken my 1st word which is "take". and "there" and "mamam" and "mama" and "dada". Prasing the lord with my 2 hands lifted up is what I like to do very much. And clapping my hand of course. and signally "chou chou" when I smell somthing yacky. "Shan Nao Jing" is also what i am very good at doing.. hehe

Very soon, I will be able to talk to my mommy & daddy & ge ge terry. I am sure u guys cant wait to chat with me right? hohoho

BYE UNREASONABLE & CRUEL PEOPLE - YOU ARE OUT OF OUR LIVES

2008-09-26T01:58:00.000-07:00

Friday 19 Sep 2008 - something "unexpected " happen. The family has now become even worst due to one person's unreasonable act that resulted in daddy's anger. Mommy told daddy that for grandma's sake, we just forget about the whole thing and just try our best to pay grandma a visit as and when we can. She is sick so we show more concern to her. The others we just leave them alone is the best. The whole family is simply ridiculous ! treat money more important than flesh & blood. My daddy is very very disappointed with his sister and his father..so sad to say this but no choice.
Anyway, we shall close the subject of this family conflicts now and shall not talk about them anymore. We just hope and pray for grandma to recover after the chemo and take good care of her health and we just do our best to visit her as n when we can. My mommy says to my daddy that we just honour our own parents is good. Others we cannot control how they want to behave and how they want to act. We just leave them alone. We have no time for such people. Come on, pleassseeee give us a BREAK mannnn. Goodbye to these hyper unreasonable, toxic, poisonous & cruel people. U are out of our lives !! bye bye

2008-09-26T01:56:00.000-07:00

Hi readers... mom has finally managed to type the handwritter letter for ah mah and now it can be posted here. She wrote the letter to ah mah with the intention to tell her not to be angry and told her to take good care of her own health while undergoing the chemo treatment.
She also just wanted to inform ah gong & ah mah that they have managed to find me and ge ge terry a new babysitter..and tried to explain why they need to change now to avoid any misunderstandings.

To daddy's horror, their reaction was horrible. Both of them blared at him fiercely while he popped by their place (mentioned in the last posting) as if he and my mommy has done anything sinful. Ah mah even told daddy not to listen to mommy in everything. what a joke ! As if my mommy is the one who created the mess. It's really sad that people fail to realise it's their own daughter's fault and still insisting that she has done nothing. Anyone in the right mind will agree that it is her daughter and ah mah who is creating all this mess now and even ah gong is so blind to make daddy feel that as though it's all his and mommy's fault. My goodness ! to be frank, Ah gong always scolded my brother terry that he has no wisdom. I think this incident will truely show who is the one who has no wisdom. hohoho.

We don't understnad why their reaction is like that. It only shows that they still refuse to admit it's their daughter who started the fire and keep on thinking that my daddy & mommy are trouble-makers. They still feel that their daughter, our “xiao gu" has done nothing. (they keep emphasizing on this statement) They simply just defend her blindly eventhough she is rude and purposely tried to hurt my mom by not saying a single word of "hold on" when my mommy called ah mah to find out how was she feeling. It's basic courtesy to tell the caller to "hold On" when a person picks up a call right ?? But ah mah told my mom off that her daughter dont know its my mommy who is calling. How can it be ? Who else will call her "mother" ?? She only has one daughter-inlaw. My mum even addressed her daughter by her name "ah keow" and how can it be she dont know??? dont lie or defend her la ! Even if she doesnt know, she still need to have the courtesy to say "HOLD ON" or "1 second" or "pls wait" or watever. Don't tell me that a 31 year old woman has any basic telephone manners ? Obviously she knows it's my mum who is calling, and she is still bearing grudges with her, so she purposely don’t bother to even say “hold on”.. what kind of attitude is this ? u can either call it childish or sick ! up to you readers. Hahaha

They still do not understand that my mommy is not upset just because of this. What upset my mommy the most is because of ah mah defending her daughter blindly without a good reason straight on her face and never spare a thought for my mommy's feelings. My mommy was very hurt by ah mah's unfair behaviour.
She is not angry at all. Too bad they dont understand. Anyway, my daddy understands and we all know everything.

Whatever it is now... Sorry and Sad to say.....this parents don't treasure their only son and 2 grandchildren (En & Ze). What else can we do but to just leave them alone.

Mother, 不好意思，我又写信给你是因为我不懂要如何开口。

我只是想告诉你，你好好的养病，不要为任何的事情生气或伤心。我真的只是要让你知道，上次我是非常难过和伤心而已。我根本没有生你还是阿娇的气。我只是觉得我在你们家里，只是一个很小的角色，我没有权力生你们的气。不过没关系，只要你们不要误会我和丰义要惹事情就够了。其实我们是希望一家人好好沟通，家合万事兴。

过去的，我们不再提了。现在我知道可能你还在气头上，我也不想打电话给你，避免让你生气影响你的身体。你好好照顾身体，希望你早日康复。等你冷静下来了，我们会来探望你，好不好？

我也借此机会通知你们，我们已经找到新的保姆顾阿恩和泽泽了。九月一日开始。因为反正 Aunty Susan 也是有问过我有没有打算请女佣。不过我们也了解 father 不太赞成请女佣，所以我们只好请个保姆照顾两个小孩。以后你的化疗和电疗完了，身体完全恢复后，我们才打算好吗？

对不起我的字写得很难看。因为现在已经半夜一点多了，我也很累了。

以后你们想念孙子，随时都可以打电话来或来我们家。你们也随时欢迎来看他们。

非常感谢你和 father这几个月帮我们照顾泽泽和阿恩。真的是非常没有办法，你生病了，身体比较重要。所以我们就只好找别人照顾他们。反正 Aunty Susan 也只能顾到年尾十二月。我也担心泽泽越大越会认人，如果等多几个月才换人顾，怕他更难适应，希望你们能了解。我也很怕在这个时候换人顾孩子，可能会引起我们之间有多一个不必要的误会，使到我们的感情更糟就不好了。我也想你们只有丰义这个唯一的儿子，希望你们父子和母子的关系好。

OK了我要去睡了。我再说一次，我只是那时很难过和伤心你说的话。我一点都不生气。伤心，心痛，难过，被伤到自尊心是不同的。希望我们的误会能够解开好吗？

谢谢你读这封信。晚安。金娇

26/8/2008

I guess my mum has her every right to share all these "sad" events in our blog. In fact daddy & mommy are both wondering when ah gong & ah mah will call to ask how are the 2 kids..at least?

It's not my mum's intention to let you readers know how bad my grandparents and her daugher are. She needs to release her stress and sadness by blogging about it because this is actually very important matters in our family. My dad also agrees that she has the right to blog about it as he knows she has no other intention at all. We are just feeling disappointed that why daddy, being the only son of my grandparents are being ignored totally now by his own parents. The reason why he doesnt want to initiate to call them up is because of the last time he was badly lectured by them when he went over to their home. He says the moment he think of how they blared at him and how nasty their faces looked, he just simply cannot believe why his parents were behaving in that manner !

As for my mom, why would she call since they have made her feel that she has no position to talk at all and of course she has the right to choose not to be hurt again. In fact, she cried over this matter a few times and she is getting quite numb about it already.... sigh. My daddy keeps telling her don’t have to be sad over this anymore as it is not worth her tears.

2008-09-16T00:55:00.000-07:00

2 weeks has passed....both ah gong & ah ma didnt even call up my dad or mum to find out whether I am adapting well to the new babysitter. I wonder why they can just leave us alone without showing any concern to me and ge ge their grandchildren. Mommy say...it's ok..daddy should still bring me & ge ge to visit them anytime when he is free (but these 2 weeks daddy is so busy with work..he has some projects on hand)..but daddy says no need. Cos he was quite hurt by ah gong and ah ma the last time he popped by to pass them pocket money. They said some nasty words which hurt him and he was quite annoyed and did not expect them to behave in this manner. sigh..

remember in our last posting we mentioned that too bad we cant post the 2 letters here as it was typed in chinese and the other one is hand-written. Thank God my mom managed to "copy and paste". Want to see the letter which my mum wrote to ah gong the last time. here it goes...

Father,本来我是打算保持沉默，可是看在你是我家翁，我才决定写这封信给你。

你是个有智慧，有分析和判断能力的人，相信您会明白我这封信的含意和目的。

请允许我写信来让您了解我必须让您知道我非常难过，因为我实在对你的太太，我的家婆非常失望。对我来讲，你们的女儿永远是对的。我们死都要忍还是让。

对不起，我不知如何因该怎样和你们这种思想的一家人相处。我们的思想完全不同。因为可能我在你们眼里是一个喜欢惹事情的坏息妇。我以经做了最坏的打算。我随时可以让你们全部都认为我是一个不孝的息妇。我无所谓的。因为人在做，天在看。上天知道我是怎样的人就足够了!

原本我想不如做个闲人，睁一只眼闭一只眼，像你们这样,什么都不谈也不管，就可以和睦共处。但是，上次你的孝顺宝贝女儿来责备我们，我们跟你们讲出来希望可以把误会说清楚我们也算了。可是，她并没有就此罢休，我只能说她这个人是没有度量，到现在还一直怀恨我，把我当仇人看待。请原谅我提醒一下你和MOTHER 如果你们的宝贝女儿不来无原无故责备我们，那天我们会向你们题起这件事吗？不过请问你们到底清不清楚是谁开始惹出这些“小事情”的呢？即然你们叫我们算了，我们也不再提了。

可是，当你的女儿接我打给 MOTHER 的电话的时候，她为何要用这么恶劣的态度对我呢？(这件事情发生了两次，一次是拜6一次是拜2。她接到我打来找MOTHER 的电话她不叫我，我是无所谓的，不过我却有叫她的名字阿娇，帮我叫MOTHER 听电话。可是她连一句“等一下”也不愿意啃，这样对吗？最多我当她是没有基本礼貌的读书人。但是 最让我感到痛心的是，当我问 MOTHER 为什么阿娇接我的电话也不应我，我没想到MOTHER 尽然会回答我说因为你们的宝贝女儿不懂是我打来的！！！这很明显，不管怎样MOTHER 都是会袒护自己的女儿也不管娶进来的媳妇的感受的。我原本想这个拜2或拜3晚上不要煮饭，在外面吃了来陪MOTHER 一下，但是我被她明显袒护女儿的那句话感到彻低的失望与心痛。请问你们如果你的女儿的家婆也这样明显袒护自己的女儿，你们会有什么感受呢？

我和丰义都不明白你们做父母的这样每一次都要你们的儿子和媳妇容忍这些无理娶闹的人，请问\这是什么道理？？难道每一件事情都是我们惹的吗？ 难道你们的24孝宝贝女儿一点都没有错是吗？如果您老人家的答案还是那句话“不要管”，还是“算了”，还是“忍”，非常抱歉，这不是我本人的原则，态度及处事方式范围里能够作到的。

你们疼女儿决对没错，可是你们从来不用公平的方式来决绝问题的存在。请原谅我必须很坦白的发表我的感受。

即然你们在乎嫁出去的女儿多过我这个唯一的媳妇，我无话可说。那么以后我不上你家因该不是一个问题吧？？不过你们放心，我跟丰义讲了，他是你们的儿子,以后他带你们的两个孙子上你家就行了。 我想你们是不会在乎我有没有来的。

我是有想过在这个时候不应该说出心里的话，我也担心MOTHER 会因此受到刺激，可是请你们思考一下， 是谁先搞出这些事情的？ 是我还是丰义吗？ 我想你们可能还是觉得你们的女儿作得很对,所以你们是不可能会去劝她反省一下她自己对我们的态度的.

我和丰义都对你们的女儿24孝的性格赞不决口！因为我们承认我们是无法像她们好像在印钞票一样的。

该说的我都说完了。请别误会我要你们去责怪任何人. 很遗憾, 当了你们10 年的坏媳妇，我只能说你们跟本一点都不认识与了解我. 我今天只是想让你们真正了解我这个当媳妇内心的感受罢了。我也认为我有责任向你交代一声我以后不会上来你家的原因。因为我感觉我不在你们的眼里。由其是MOTHER 和你们的两个宝贝女儿.

我本来想让你们自己去想一想或自己猜测我不来的原因(因为反正你们不擅长沟通,而经常选择什么都不说)，可是我觉得跟你们坦白讲清楚 是我的责任也比较合理的。

不孝媳妇上

21.08.08

Note: my mummy purposely name herself "unfilial" as she knows that these people will eventually say that she is unfilial..and it doesnt matter to her at all. What matter most is what kind of person she is in God's eyes and in my daddy's eyes. Even ge ge Terry understands that whole situation. Mummy ask him to call ah ma he doesnt want to do so and he says it's unnecessary).

the other letter (handwritten) one,will be posted the next round. Readers do watch out for it ok.

Daddy was disappointed because both his parents do not seems to be fair and reasonable. They just keep insisting that xiao gu has done nothing. They simply don't bother that my mommy is being hurt and upset. The worst is ah gong still tell daddy that next time dont call if there's nothing. But he failed to understand and appreciate that mommy called ah ma to find out how is she feeling after the chemo as she knows she might be giddy or nausea.. the statement made by ah gong is really very hurting and nasty ! we are all very disappointed why they have to defend their daughter even when she is being rude. So, now daddy & mommy decided to forget about it and since daddy's parents dont even bother to call up and ask how are the kids adapting to the new babysitter...so it's better to leave things as it is. We shall just take it as a "persecution" by the family ! too bad.

Anyway thank you God for leading us to this wonderful babysitter "Mdm Wee" who is very fond of me and feed me very well and love me so much. She is so nice and loving to me.
She bought 2 lanterns for me and ge ge and brought us go kai kai sometimes. I enjoy being look after by her very much and ge ge too.

DADDY'S & MOMMY'S HEARTACHE STORIES

2008-09-04T03:21:00.000-07:00

so long never post anything here.. mommy has been very upset and depressed lately. I could see that she is very affected by my grandparent's attitude. Both daddy & mommy are very upset over my grandparent's unreasonable and ridiculous behaviour. Don't understand why they are so unfair. they just simply think that their daughters are great and even my daddy is their only son they dont treasure him. Daddy was very upset and told mommy that let's not be bothered by them anymore. cos they simply never care for our feelings. Daddy had repeatedly told his parents that my mommy was just feeling hurt and not angry but they just keep repeating that xiao gu did not do anything why my daddy & mommy want to create any troubles. In my grandparent's eyes, my dad & mom like to create troubles in their family...but they are totally WRONG! Even both my ge ge & myself know that they are not. If it's not because of my xiao gu's attitude towards my mommy and my grandmother still defend daughter without a good reason, my mommy wont be so hurt. In fact my mommy cried a few times over this incident. She is just very very hurt and wrote 2 letters to my grandparents, one to my grandfather, and the other letter to my grandmother. I tink it's good for you readers to know what my mommy wrote to them. even daddy agrees and mommy did seek my daddy's consent before proceeding as her intention is to make peace among the family by just telling the truth to my grandparents, hoping they will understand how she feel as their daughter-in law and hope that they will really do something to make the family closer. But to our horror, the opposite happens and now, they made my daddy even more upset.. What a pity that the letters are unable to be posted because one was typed and the other one was handwritten in chinese and cannot be copied into this page. Sigh! why are adults so complicated ?? Anyway, my daddy & mommy both decided to leave things as it is and just move on with our own life and let God handle the situation because there's nothing they can do because if our grandparents insists their thinking and mentality is correct, and refuse to do something, what's the point of talking and pretending nothing had happen. My mommy is deeply hurt. My daddy is upset. so what to do...Well,only God knows.

Thank God that now, both my me & my brother are being looked after by a new babysitter Mdm Wee. She is a nice lady. I like her. Hope she will look after me on long term basis. I can see that mommy likes Mdm wee also and they could get along very well. Just hope Mdm wee can convince her sister about not able to help her look after her grandchild because she has committed to look after me & my ge ge terry. Mommy will be very very upset if mdm wee cant look after us anymore. Mdm Wee told my mommy about her sister call her up on the 2nd day of taking care of us, and my mommy was so shocked and her mood was badly affected. She was very upset that she cried again over this because she feels that it is not easy to look for a baby sitter who is reliable and kind to her kids. So we really pray very hard that Mdm Wee's sister will be understanding so that Mdm wee can continue to look after en & ze. God pleaseeee HELP US !

2008-08-07T00:37:00.001-07:00

ze ze boy in car. So natural and cute.

2008-08-07T00:33:00.000-07:00

mommy esther & baby Teagan. Love u baby Love u mommy...

Baby TEAGAN and his food

2008-08-07T00:26:00.000-07:00

Look at this cheeky baby who is also a foodie like the rest of his family. We shall call ourselves 'the Foodie 4" Dino, Esther, Terry & Teagan. :)))

Nowadays, when we eat, he also must have something to eat.. otherwise he will just bang the table and scream for justice. Look how he behave with and without food given to him.

MORE BIRTHDAY PICS. ....

2008-08-07T00:23:00.001-07:00

some more photos to share..... =D
Presents from Aunty susan hand-made by herself. Cool ya.

DINO'S BIRTHDAY CAKE & PRESENTS

2008-08-07T00:21:00.000-07:00

2008-08-07T00:14:00.000-07:00

More pics to share... :D

DINO'S BIRTHDAY 2008

2008-08-07T00:01:00.000-07:00

Dino's birthday 6 Aug 2008. (36 years old liao ! still look young and handsome la...hahaha) Sayang Daddy dino. From Terry & Teagan.
Mommy also sayang you.. if you tink your daddy & mommy dont sayang you it's ok. God says YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL IN HIS EYES. Your wife, your 2 sons love you so much. Aunty Susan also loves you.. she even bothers to bless you with a Birthday Present early in the morning on 6 AUG 2008. Dino & Esther went to celebrate at NO SIGN BOARD restaurant in Vivo City in the evening. We ordered Chilli Crab, Honey chicken, Stir fried Spinach and Prawn roll. Emmmm.... Yummy Yummy ! its so delicious and satisfying. But we feel sorry that we didnt bring the 2 boys along, especially Terry as he loves to eat crab. Daddy Dino is also a Crab lover..thats why we choose to eat at NO SIGN BOARD who is famous for their Chilli Crabs. I told Dino, if he enjoy this dinner, we can make it our celebration venue for all our birthday or anniversary celebrations. haha. We did not bring my in - laws along because my mother in law is not suppose to take such food for her condition now..otherwise we would have brought them along for dinner as what we used to do sometimes. After Dinner, we went to shop shop awhile and I bought 3 packs of D24 & Sultana Durians at only 28 bucks from Giant. After that we fetch Terry & Teagan from Aunty Susan's house at 8 pm plus, went to pick up a birthday cake from Bengawan Solo at Pioneer Mall and at the same time brought Terry to see doctor as he was coughing quite badly. But the doctor's clinic was so packed...mommy esther suggested to bring him to doctor next morning instead. Enjoy the pics displayed here !

sickening people in our life..SIAN

2008-08-06T22:50:00.000-07:00

Having this blog in the 1st place is to share our joy of having the 2 precious boys God has given to me & dino but I think what I am going to share at this very point of time is something very different. It's not something very pleasant but it helps to ease the pain of our disappointments we received from my husband very own immediate family member. Even our elder boy who is only 8 year old is mature enough to feel the anguish of this incident.

Recently my mother in law was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer and need to go for chemotherapy treatment. When we heard of this, our (dino & I) 1st reaction was to suggest to her to have a 2nd opinion before she proceed with the treatment because earlier the doctor told her it was 1st stage and then she had the lump removed too, it was only after the operation, the dignosis become stage 3. Our intention is for her to find out more as it is quite unbelieving and we do not want to see her suffer from the painful side effects of chemo. I have heard from my colleague that her dad had recently just gone for chemo and I could understand how much he had gone through and even obtain as much information as possible from her on what could be done to help her and to ease the pain and discomfort of the side effects that she might be facing. However, her 2 daughters and her husband disagreed and strongly felt that it is not necessary for her to seek any 2nd opinion but instead to just proceed with the chemo treatment as advised by her doctor. Well we just leave the decision to them as we do not want to be mistaken for any reasons of asking her to seek a 2nd opinion then.

2 weeks ago, her 1st chemo session started.It was a Monday. Prior to the treatment, the doctor had already pre-warned us that anyone in the family who is having flu or cough during her chemo session period must try to avoid going near to her, especially young children as they are very prone to cough or flu as all chemo patients has zero immunity. So we took note of that. Co-incidentally, dino was quite sick with flu & sore throat during the week when his mom when for her 1st chemo session and I was also still recovering from my cough. So during the 1st day of her chemo, we did not visit her at her home, but when I pick my 2 boys from her neighbour "aunty susan" house, I did pop by to see how is my mother-in law feeling and before that, when I called my father in law in that afternoon when they just left the hospital, he told me "she is very fine and no discomfort at all leh". However, in the evening, I went to see her to ask how is she feeling and I could see her looking quite pale..so I told her to have a rest and I go home to cook dinner for my husband and my boy. Her daughter was there and she did not come out to say a word to me though..but it's absolutely fine to me. My father in law came out of the house and told me, if dino is not well, you tell him tomorrow he don't need to come to the house because he is afraid that he might spread the flu or sorethroat to my mother in law so I told my father in law, ok I will let him know..and I also told him that this week, I will cook myself, you take good care of mother as I believe she will be quite weak and need to have a good rest, and he agrees.

Then Tues I went to see her again after work and also called her during the afternoon to see how is she feeling. Dino also called his mother to ask how is she feeling and told her he is sick so he won't be going to her house. On Wednesday, I also called her in the morning because I could'nt find her at home in the morning when I intended to spend some time with her that morning before I go to work but she has left to buy vegetable at the organic farm together with her daughter, (I called her and asked where is she as I did not expect her to go out because she was suppose to avoid going to the public as her immunity is zero, and she told me she is feeling much better when I asked her how come she go out). In the evening, when I reached aunty susan's home, I thought of passing the Organic Moisturising lotion to my mother in law and I met her elder son-in law at the lift downstair, so I passed it to him to pass to my mother in law and did not walk over because I was bit tired and wanted to quickly go home and cook dinner and do my housework. Thursday I called her and also went over to see her again in the evening for a while before I go back to cook dinner. Friday, Dino & I were late so we did not went over as it's already late and Aunty susan had brought the 2 boys down to wait for us. My mother also has called my mother in law to ask how is she feeling on one of the days. On Sat, I spoke to my mother in law over the phone and she mentioned she is feeling much better. Dino called her also after that. Sunday we knew her daughter is there and we did not call or visit her because Sunday is my own family day.

Then the following week, Monday 4 Aug, evening, I smsed my sister in law to ask how things with her as I could sensed that she seems quite moody lately and busy with her business. Dino & I remembered she mentioned to us that during Dino's birthday let's organise something as in going out for a meal. I smsed her to say its ok no need to organise anything as dino & I intended to have a simple celebration on our own as it falls on a weekday anyway and we both are working. She rudely replied "when did I mentioned that ? I think he heard wrongly"..and in her next sms, she told us off to "visit mother more often and to think of her feelings sometimes".
I was stunned and annoyed by her sms and replied her "Since when we did not visit her?"

She then answered back with all she wanted to say (think she must have kept it in her heart for long time) and told us that we do not care for her parents and we always think we are right, etc, we always do things our ways and that is none of her business, etc, and told me to becareful with my words when I told her to "wake up her idea" and told her to "think before she talk" and I told her not to jump into conclusion without communicating. She answered back and told me that I am very rude, etc and I replied her I am pissed off by her attitude too and she is very disappointing just like her sister (someone who refuse to communicate with me & her brother - anyway, for this person, I dont want to comment much as I have given up hopes on rebuilding the relationship as it is useless and hopeless anyway)

I was so shocked that she mentioned I was standing outside the door or her brother is downstair from far etc that week when her mother went for the chemo. I did not expect her to think that just because that whole week we did not go inside the house, she jump into such conclusion. I personally feel that anyone in the "right mind" will be able to understand the reasons, or if not, can just walk to the door, and say, come in la, or why dont come in ? rather than to be so sensitive and jump into conclusion without finding out the reasons. But the thing is..don't she has a brain to think why we did not go into the house, if I dont care for her mother, I would have just gone home straight without bothering to walk over to see her for awhile. She don't even have the brains to analyse that I have to go home and cook dinner and attend to daily household chores and my 2 boys. (1 of them is just a 8mth plus old baby who need to be taken care by ourselves in the evening). What is she talking ????? She is still childless.. so I doubt maybe thats why she couldnt understand. She even says where is brother, never see him call mom or visit mom? Did you all see how she vomit, giddy,etc ? (I replied her.. do you mean we have to be there to see her vomit and how giddy she is then you are happy is it ?)

Frankly I was very annoyed by her attitudes and I told her why can't she just call and talk to us instead of having wild thoughts and tell us what to do. I told her we know we have done our part, and it is necessary for dino & I to talk to her parents about it to resolve the misunderstanding, and she is so rude and unreasonable in telling me that 'there's nothing to talk, if we think what we do is enough then let it be, etc" I told her that since she cant understand, then there is no point and useless for me to talk to her..and anyway she can jollywell call her own brother to talk if she is unhappy.. (Readers ! Do u think I am right or wrong ?)

I was totally pissed off by her and dino was also very disappointed about this incident. Even our son Terry who is only 8 year old is mature to know what is happening and consoled me by saying..."mommy, are u hurt ? dont be sad..just forget about these people and erase them out of our memory". I answered him.. I AM NOT HURT..its ok..cause these people do not know WHO IS THEIR SOURCE..they like to simply talk and accuse people and jump into their own conclusion..the best is to LEAVE THEM ALONE and move on.. There are more IMPORTANT things in life then all these nonsense. We prayed together and after that we all really felt better and we decided to talk to dino's mother about this incident the following day as we both accompany her to NUH for blood test for diabetes as she need to see doctor the following week.

My mother in law always talk in a way that she understands our point and she do not feel that we are bad son and daughter-in law..but we are very disappointed that why she and my father in law can never have a word with her daughter to advise her that she is not suppose to behave in this manner. Whatever it is, we need to communicate. Our intention in telling her what had happened between her daughter and us is to let her know that her daughter is accusing us of not showing concern to her and very unhappy with us and we want her to know that it's her daughter who is trying to create problems..so she ought to know what is going on. We know her daughters are very filial. We know they shower their parents with expensive gifts and monetary possessions unlike us who only give them some token of finance on a monthly basis and buying things that are not as expensive as what they have bought. If people want to compare the amount of money given and value of gifts given, there's nothing we can do as we have done our part and we do not believe in relationships or "love" that is built on money anyway. In our opinion, Dino has done his best. We give our mother in law $600 every month. She started helping to look after our baby Teagan since Jan 2008 and until mid June, she has to go for operation, so she suggested that we let her neighbour "Aunty Susan" to help us look after Teagan until Dec 2008 as her daughter-in law will be giving birth next Jan. We agreed with her and stop looking for other baby sitter as we know that my in laws is worry that Teagan might not be comfortable with a stranger if we find him a new babysitter. We also have the thought that if Aunty Susan look after Teagan, they will still get to see him at least from MONs to FRIs..and we know they love our children so of course we want them to have a chance to see the 2 boys even when my mother in law is sick and need to go for chemo.

By the way, during the week of her chemo, my son Terry went over to see his grandmother without me telling him to do so. My dear boy told me he went over to see how his grandmother is feeling and "pei" her. I am so proud of my boy who is so loving and sensible. In fact, Aunty Susan told me that few weeks ago, before my mother in law started her chemo, she was still trying to accept the bad news of her sickness, she sometimes cried, and my son Terry even consoled her by telling her, "AH MA, you dont cry..if you cry, I will be very sad(Keksim), you must try to take it easy, and positive...then you will recover fast". I was really very touched and proud of him when Aunty Susan told me how good Terry was.

Anyway, after talking to my mother in law, we know she will not do anything about it..as it seems that both my inlaws are always defending their 2 "rich" daughthers..maybe they are afraid that they may get angry and love them lesser or whatever. From this Dino & I just have to conclude that : May be they think we have alot of money but we dont care about them. and we only willing to spend on ourselves. and we are selfish people and don't care other's feelings.
Whatever they want to think, let them be. We dont have to explain to anyone. We just want my mother in law to know what is going on. That's all.

cool guy Terry En En

2008-07-29T01:49:00.000-07:00

Hey look at this cool looking guy. the future super male model in the making...

GE GE I LOVE U

2008-07-29T01:43:00.000-07:00

See how close me & my ge ge has become. When I first arrived in the Lim's family..ge ge wasnt very fond of me as he thought that everybody was giving me the attention and he felt neglected. After a few months, he has grown to love me more and I love ge ge too. I also love my buddies and Froggie and of course my mommy & daddy too ! Thank you ge ge terry for playing with me all the time and makes me laugh. I enjoy your company very much. Every afternoon, I will wait for you to return from school..you gotta do well in your studies and guide me along next time ok. ;)

baby Kungfu Panda

2008-07-22T02:11:00.000-07:00

Daddy bought me this kunfu panda bodysuit. I look very cute in it right...

super baby teagan

2008-07-22T02:05:00.000-07:00

Look at this chubby chub super bubbly guy..our darling baby teagan. He has grown much these few weeks.. now 8 months and 1 week. know how to sit very "zai", crawl very fast, and stand on his feet quite firm for his age..and even move a few steps. dont tell me u are trying to walk ok.. that's too fast. A trip to the doctor's clinic 3 weeks ago..teagan has already master these skills..and doctor says he is an advance baby. Love u darling. u are daddy, mommy and ge ge terry's precious babe.

terry's birthday

2008-07-22T01:54:00.000-07:00

Hello I am Terry. I celebrated my 8th birthday on 20 Jul at my granny's house. (my mommy's mom) In order to save time,Mommy bought me a Blueberry cake from the bakery at ABC market for convenience sake..cos every sunday we go there to see my eldest aunty and to have our lunch at my uncle's noodle stall. After that we proceed to granny's house.. I received presents from all my aunties and my granny gave me $20.00. :) My dad bought me the Transformer Premier version as my birthday gift 2 weeks in advance. Mom bought me a GAP watch and GAP brief.heehee.. and mommy's best fren Aunty Angie bought me a Ben10 pencil case.. oh yes..mom bought me some new "Power Ranger"stationeries as well. thanks everyone.

In the evening..we went to Vivo city for dinner at TUNG LOK SIGNATURE. The food are yummy. On sat 19 Jul daddy also bought us dinner at Ajisen @ Lot 1. Here's my kid's meal. Guess wat..mommy also order a kid's meal for herself. cos she dont know what to order from the normal menu. The waitress saw that we have 2 kids at our table so just accept the 2 kids meal order. At tung lok restaurant..mommy was too busy attending to teagan so she couldnt snap any pictures..and worst still she left her handphone at my granny's place.. thats why. dad's handphone camera is not as sharp so never take pictures. But its ok..I enjoyed my birthday celebration.

2008-06-16T21:02:00.000-07:00

mommy playing with baby teagan. look at his happy face.
feel down ? just look at him and you will laugh as well..

2008-06-16T06:28:00.000-07:00

look at these footsies!!! guess whose crazy idea to snap such pictures. who else but my crazy brother terry. I guess one look u know which footsie belongs to daddy, mommy, ge ge and me. All different sizes mah ! hahaha. so easy.

2008-06-16T06:19:00.000-07:00

look at this black soft toy inside my playpen. this is my mommy's favourite cartoon..its name is Batsu Maru. Its a cute black bird and it was my mommy's 1st present from my daddy when they were dating 11 years ago.

i like it too cos its very cute & soft to hug.

2008-06-16T06:16:00.000-07:00

2008-06-16T06:10:00.001-07:00

I have just turned 7 months 2 days ago. Look how clever i am..i could sit, crawl and stand at the same time. Of course i need you guys to support me when i stand la. My daddy call me a super baby cos i could do these 3 things when i just turned 7 months...1 month plus ago, i could sit abit but my parents were too frighten to let me sit without support..and bought me the combi chair. Now i could sit straight and when I go makan at restaurants, I now sit in baby high chair. It's so fun to dine together with you adults. I get to taste more things too. And nowadays, I also try to communicate with you guys more.. hope you could understand what I want ok.

2008-05-26T22:42:00.000-07:00

Thank you Mom & Dad for buying me this Baby Car Seat. It is so comfortable.I can just sleep comfortably & safely when I doze off at times. I can also enjoy the sight-seeing while sitting comfortably in the car. Most importantly, it is much safer as compared to be held in an adult's lap while the car is moving. My mom & dad are very particular and will scold if my ge ge move or make too much noise inside the car. He was also seated in such car seat when he was a baby. I just wonder why some parents never bother to belt up their kids in their cars.

2008-05-26T22:10:00.001-07:00

Guys ! U saw my ah Gong's picture in the previous posts right ? Let me tell you more about my Ah Gong. We have a date every evening. Everyday, I look forward to this daily evening date with my Ah Gong at the Playground just below his block. Around 5plus in the evening, when I see ah gong come home from work, I get very excited. I will smile to him, move my arms and legs very vigrously to show him my excitement. He will usually take his shower 1st before he carries me in his arms. My Ah Gong can carry me for a long time without complaining. hahaha. He has strong arms. Same as my daddy. The only person who cant carry me very long is my mommy but it's ok. She will sit down with me and put me on her lap. I enjoy that too as I can feel her warmth just like when I am inside her tummy. :))) I like to go downstair playground and I like car rides. Guess many babies like me enjoy that too. errr Wait wait wait !! I like COW ride too. But i think u can't see the cow in one of the photos here.

2008-05-26T21:57:00.000-07:00

Time flies ! my ge ge Terry is getting more & more used to having a baby brother after being the only child in the family for 7 years. We are enjoying each other's company and I like to watch my ge ge in action all the time. He is a very active boy and our mom & dad agree that I am gonna be either like ge ge or even more active. Ge Ge is not strong enough to hold me in his arms like other adults do yet but he could hold me when I am inside my play pen or sitting down. Soon I will be able to play with my ge ge..and I really look forward to having fun with him.

flip & roll

2008-05-20T02:20:00.000-07:00

Look how fast I could flip and roll when I orn orn. My mommy has to put a piece of soft mattress next to my own mattress to prevent me from hitting the wall when I flip and roll. She always found me turning 360 degree by mid nite when she wakes up to check on me. or rolled to the end of the wall. Mom..i gonna learn how to crawl very soon yah. Are u excited about that ?? heehee

2008-05-10T02:24:00.000-07:00

celebrating my Ah Gong's birthday cum Mother's Day on 3 May at LongBeach Restaurant @ IMM. Mommy bought ah gong a oreo cheese cake. Too bad I cant eat yet.. but it looks yummy.

Teether KING

2008-05-02T09:21:00.000-07:00

remember some time ago my ge ge terry crowned me the Du Du (pacifier) king ? few days ago, he crowned me the Teether King. How imaginative he is ya...gotta learn from him.

my hair so long liao !

2008-05-02T08:59:00.000-07:00

Look at my hair..dont u tink they have grown much ? my mommy loves my hair style so much and she insisted that I keep it instead of shaving me botak as suggested by some people or even to trim it. She trimmed for me few times already anyway. But this picture of mine look abit like a girl girl, do I? of course not la hahaha ! recently, when mommy & daddy brought me & ge ge out, 1 lady from a shop told my mommy "eh your baby look like a boss and very man hor"hehehe.

My ge ge also beginning to be more and more man these days... Look at him & my mommy. He now behaves like a young gentleman and mommy also loves him alot. Ge Ge, I know u thought mommy loves me more cos I am a little baby, but I tell u, I could see the way she hugs you, rest assured, she loves you just as much. Both of us are always her little prince charmings. You are her elder prince and I am her baby prince. So dont worry..we both are the apples of her eyes now and forever.

my New COMBI chair chair

2008-05-02T08:51:00.000-07:00

I have almost master the skill of sitting up. mommy saw this comfortable looking chair chair at Tom & Stephanice @ Tiong Bahru Plaza after visiting my Granny (see her pic above) today and showed daddy the chair. Both of them agreed that it looks quite good and they let me try sitting on it. I was happy and excited to be seated in this new chair chair, and was like bouncing up and down. So mommy say...buy la buy la..since they want me to sit comfortably & safely on a new chair chair. My Ah Gong mentioned that it isnt safe to put me in a walker..so they think this chair should be quite good. Thank you mommy & daddy for buying this new chair chair for me ok. Next time I grow up, i buy you a Rocking Chair.

GAP bear bear again !

2008-05-02T08:46:00.000-07:00

Remember the GAP Bear Bear my mommy & xiao gu are crazy about. Mommy saw some baby clothings on sales at IMM (3 for S$12.00) and she went to take a look. Guess what ! she found some rompers with the Gap Bear Bear again.. hahaha. So she couldnt resist it and bought me some. But this time she saw one which has many stars and she thinks it will look nice on me.

Let me model the rompers for u guys to see. Cute right ? me or the bear bear ? heehee.. guess u will say I am cuter right ! Thanks ya.

TEAGAN IS 5 MONTHS OLD ALREADY ! :)

2008-04-15T22:40:00.000-07:00

Hello everybody, I just turned 5 months yesterday. My mommy laid me on her bed and played with me this morning and realised I could lift my head so steadily high, and she was delighted and start snapping pictures away again... She is proud to share with u guys how clever her baby is and thanking God how well I have developed.

2008-04-11T21:50:00.000-07:00

Hi guys, my mommy just love to share with her good friends my lovely pics. Cos she is always thanking God for giving her and daddy such an adorable baby boy. They love me so much..and always praising God. Dad & Mom, I will grow up to be a Healthy & Righteous man of God ok. I promise u all. :) That's my greatest desire. Thank you for praying for me and loving me always.

2008-04-09T21:55:00.000-07:00

Hey today daddy & mommy on leave..bring me to Marina Square to meet up with xiao gu. My granny needs to go for her check up. Nice ya..i just love and enjoy such weekday kai kai with my daddy & mommy. Ge Ge is in school. So sorry okie. Look how fascinated I am by the colorful barney car. That's my first barney car ride. Cool....

2008-04-01T23:05:00.000-07:00

TODAY is 1st APR...My 1st April fool day...but nobody has fooled me anyway.

My mommy has an appointment at KK hospital this morning and daddy drove us there. It is the 2nd time I met my mommy's gynae. Dr Tseng. He is a young and handsome looking guy who is very friendly and nice to us. He called me "sweetie pie" when he saw me and cant wait to carry me on his arms. Mommy managed to snap a picture of her favourite gynae and assistant. We went to vivo city to kaikai after the appointment and met up with Xiao Gu. I enjoyed my kai kai session today...cos mom & dad hardly bring me out on weekdays..it's not so crowded. Hope can have more of such kai kai session on weekdays ok.. but dont think so..dad & mom are working people. Nvm, they will always bring me out on weekends anyway.

DU DU KING

2008-03-30T21:13:00.000-07:00

Hi there..few days ago, I told you guys my brother Terry just crowned me the DU DU KING right ? let me show u the pic here. Did u see the du du cap on my head ? that's the crown for me. Look how creative is my ge ge Terry! But ge ge, I will not be a du du king forever la. I will kick away the sucking habbit when the right time come...I promise u.

PRAISE THE LORD ! I WON CONSOLATION PRIZE IN BABY CONTEST !

2008-03-30T08:03:00.000-07:00

Hallelujah ! Praise the Lord ! This morning..my daddy & mommy woke up a little bit earlier than the usual Sundays and brought me out early in the morning! I thought where are these guys bringing me to kai kai today how come so early cos usually I will only get to leave our home in the afternoon around 1 to 2pm. When we reached our destination, I realised there were so many babies there ! What's going on ? We went to a few different rooms..1st i was assesed by a nurse who played with me and tried to test whether I am responsive and she also told my mommy that my flesh is very solid and asked what formula am I given..and whether she still breastfeed me,etc. She even asked my mommy whether my hairstyle is natural or styled by her, of course natural lah.. how to style until so nice if its not natural. My mommy won't use any chemical products on me especially my hair. Anyway, the nurse seems to like me..I noticed she kept smiling and saying nice things.. after that we proceed to another room to take pic. I was put on this funny little green color thingy that neither look like a chair nor a potty...and oops ! its too tight for me to sit on it. hehe.. and I kept staring at the green color thingy instead of the photographer. He was in a hurry to snap all the babies pics so he just shouted "Next"...think he did not even capture my smiling face. chey! The last round of the contest was "Daddy & Baby Chemistry". My daddy of course went to take part..he was supposed to wrap me up with a cloth. He forgotten how to do it but he managed to just wrap me nicely...

Finally the result was out and I won a consolation prize of Category A (3-6 mths) ! My proud parents were so happy when they heard my name announced. Though I did not win Top 3, I am at least among the Top 10. ",) Not bad right?? My mommy was actually very surprised because she was wondering so many contestants, must be quite difficult to win. She is not being lack of confidence but she knows the result depends on the different judges/nurses who assessed all the different babies ! My parents were very contented that I am in the Top 10 ! machiam those Project Superstar, Campus Supestar contest.. kekeke. The first word my daddy said when I won the prize was "our ze ze is very blessed..." Hey daddy..u are right ! God is sooooooo good! "God is so good God is so good God is so good to me..."

2008-03-28T22:21:00.000-07:00

Hi uncles & aunties, Ge Ge & jie jie ! Today I am 4.5 months...mommy has been snapping my pix everyday eversince she upgraded her handset to Nokia 6121. I have also just been crowned the "DU DU (pacifier)King" by my ge ge Terry. Mommy will post that Du Du King picture some other time as the pix was captured in her digital camera. Today Mommy only has time to download these recent pix captured in her mobile phone. Mommy loves me so much and like to share my pix with her friends and relatives. Also she is dedicating this blog to our Heavenly papa Jesus for blessing her with a cute baby like me.

2008-03-28T08:20:00.001-07:00

hey let me show u my "bi4 chui3" (in teochew) expressions..

2008-03-23T22:00:00.000-07:00

while texting fiona jiejie on sunday nite, mommy sent this pic to her and ask her do I look yen dao? fiona jiejie replied my mommy that I am super yen dao. She also asked my mommy I went to style my hair is it ? my mommy answered that..no leh, my ze ze's hairstyle is naturally stylish one. no need to apply any wax or styling product. my crown just stand spiky by itself. Good ya ?? I see many guys like to stlye their hair spiky spiky, dont copy me leh. kakakaka !!

This sweater is from Gap. My mommy bought for me when she went shopping with my xiao gu on thursday at vivo city. Mommy & Xiao Gu are both very fond of the "Bear Bear" in the sweater, and this sweater can be worn both side (reversible)..its quite worth to buy mommy thought...so she bought for me.

HAPPY EASTER

2008-03-23T07:29:00.000-07:00

THESE COOKIES ARE SO NICE ! DON'T THEY ? We got these cookies samples in church during Easter. HAPPY EASTER everyone !

MOMMY'S BIRTHDAY PIX =D

2008-03-21T11:39:00.000-07:00

This year I feel that my birthday is kinda special because I have a new baby boy in my life...the Greatest gift of all from God to me this year on my birthday !! Having Teagan in our family has really brought much Joy & Laughter into our lives. Though it seems that we have to start our parent-hood to a young baby such as changing diapers, feeding, sleep depriving,etc all over again, we are enjoying every moments. We should enjoy our baby Teagan while he is still a baby...and nurture him and watch him grow. We just realise that Terry has grown so much,and he is so different as compared to when he was a baby and a little toddler. So although its a lil tough now, but its a blessings to have these children. We praise & thank God everyday for these 2 lovely kids.

Early in the morning, I was actually asking Dino & Terry wat they would like to have for dinner that nite, and Dino suggested to treat us Jap food at Inagiku Japanese Fine Cuisine restaurant at Raffles City since he has always wanted to try, so why not we go there for dinner. The restaurant was newly renovated but it's kinda dark and Teagan was sleeping throughout till the food were served. He cried to be carried as he seems to enjoy staring at us eating and drooling saliva. heehee. But he was quite uncomfortable over the darkness of the surroundings...and was crying for awhile, so dino & I took turns to bring him outside the restaurant to calm him down. The friendly manager of the restaurant, a japanese look-alike lady played with him and teased him. She say "so handsome...why u cry?" heeeheeee

The food there is very authentic but of course the price is quite steep too. Terry was having ulcers in his mouth and we were careful with wat we ordered. The menu was also slightly different from few years ago when I went with a friend. We took a while to order as the menu has many categories, and a lil confusing to choose actually... and eventually we ordered 5 dishes.

A birthday celebration isn't complete without a cake so we went down to Epid'or Bakery at the Basement of R.city to buy a Mango Cake. Sound yummmy yah ? =)) It was getting late so we went home to cut the cake. This birthday celebration was simple yet very enjoyable.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME ME ME tomorrow....

2008-03-20T08:43:00.000-07:00

Why i wish myself Happy Birthday ? its because I feel so blessed this year that my birthday falls on Good Friday. Dont need to take leave also. hehe. And most importantly, it reminds me again of how our Lord Jesus has taken our places in calvary 2000 years ago, and on the 3rd day HE rose again. Its really wonderful ! This year, I received a no. of early birthday wishes...it all started as early as beginning of March, my dear hubby bought me a "HERMES look-alike" watch, a COACH bag....follow by my colleagues Fiona, Jack & Henry's birthday presents on 19 Mar, and today 20th March, my sister-in-law CJ bought me lunch at Sushi-tei @ Vivo city together with siam eng and my son Terry. Its nice to go out with family once in a while as usually we are so occupied with work and own life. When I check my email tonite, I had a surprise birthday wishes from Mr David Seah the CGL of N114 whom I have not even met. A very BiG THANK YOU to all you guys out there who has blessed me and of course Thank you dear Lord for all these nice friends and family members around me. Thank you my dear darling DINO too...hugs & kisses to him. ",) But the most most precious gift of my b.day this year, is our Baby boy TEAGAN who is now 4 months and 6 days today. Little Teagan has brought much joy and laughter to our family eversince his arrival in Nov. He is such a joy and blessing and has brought our family even closer.
My birthday wishes is all my family members and friends and colleagues and everyone to walk in good health and be blessed in every aspects. Love will be all around us and we will all be a blessings to other people's lives.

Will find some time to post some of the pics taken these few days... getting sleepy now. GOODNITE everybody. yawnnnnn ~o~

my 1st "turn-over "

2008-03-14T21:14:00.000-07:00

Mommy had a new discovery today ! Guess wat ? while undressing me to pom pom, I showed my mommy that I could "turn over" ! I am exactly 4 months old today. Praise the Lord.

I am due for my 2nd dose of DPTa injection today. So while at the clinic, mommy was so excited that she told the nurse that her little 4 month old baby could turn over on his stomach today ! The nurse exclaimed that its very fast of me to know how to turn on my tummy at 4 month.

they took my weight and height and also noticed I have put on 0.6 kgs and grown 3cm longer in just 1 month. Ho ho ho

My Model Ge Ge Terry

2008-02-27T22:21:00.000-08:00

Mommy says she has neglected Ge Ge for quite a while. Lately she kept snapping my pictures oni, and so today, she suddenly has the mood to take picture for Ge Ge. See..my Ge Ge Terry still look as good ya. He is much grown up now and still looking very handsome and really can pose like a model. Gotta learn from him mannn.

do we look alike ?

2008-02-27T22:18:00.000-08:00

do u think my gege Terry & me look alike? hehe. I think my eyes are slightly bigger..tink I am more like my mommy. :) My ge ge has good looks too and 1 thing for sure...we both have a smiling face with dimples.. cool ya.

2008-02-23T20:03:00.000-08:00

picture of my mommy & me taken at great grandma's birthday dinner.

yo yo yo ...

2008-02-23T19:47:00.000-08:00

yoyoyo check it out check it out ! yoman... look at my hiphop style dressing. Cool right ?
Thank you mommy for dressing me up so nice and stylish all the time. I always get smiles and winks when I go shopping in town.

praying & sleeping

2008-02-23T19:37:00.000-08:00

Hi guys..my mommy says when I sleep I look like I am praying. Do u think so ?

HAPPY CNY TO U GUYS !

2008-02-23T19:33:00.000-08:00

GONG XI GONG XI. MY daddy & mommy give me angpao on the Eve of CNY. I cant wait but to wish everyone Gong Xi Fa Cai. haha. My ge ge Terry receive a big present from daddy before CNY...guess wat it is ?? ",) A Car Bed -Home Depot. hehe. And look at the 3 handsome guys here including myself of course. Who is the most handsome guy here ? haha

MY 2 MONTHS PLUS PIX

2008-02-23T19:21:00.000-08:00

Hello !! my mommy just received a beautiful compliment from uncle Johanness that I am handsome & cute and he think I can be a kid model too. hehe. My mommy answered uncle Jo that if being a kid model can glorify Jesus, she will be happy to let me be one, just like my ge ge Terrry.

Hey ! Look at my very 1st studio photoshoot pix :)

2008-01-25T00:35:00.000-08:00

Yo! when mum & dad celebrated my 1 month old with family and friends, they ordered some goodies as door gifts for our guests from Sweet Surprise and was given a voucher to do a free photoshoot at Pix & Portraits. My mommy & daddy brought me to the studio at United Square in early Jan, I wasnt in a very good mood that day. The shop & the photographer looked pretty strange to me and the studio was rather stuffy. I was wondering to myself .... chey ! why should i let this strange guy take any pix of me when I am not even in the mood to do so. So I threw some tantrums and refused to let the photographer shoot any of my pix by cyring loud ! He has no choice but to advise my mommy to bring me back another time.Then 2 weeks later, daddy & mommy brought me there again, this time, the place looks more familiar to me and my mood is much better, and they managed to take a few nice smiling pictures of me. Hah ! Don't u think i look handsome & chubby in this poster? but don't u dare pinch my chubby cheek when u see me ya. hehehe.

2008-01-05T07:36:00.000-08:00

Smile, smile, smile

2008-01-05T07:17:00.000-08:00

Hi there, its been quite a while since my mommy update our blog. She is so busy everyday attending to me. Changing diapers, Breastfeeding & Bottle-feeding, attend to office work sometimes, and also bringing me to my grandmother's house in the afternoon. Hey ! I really enjoy "kaikai". Usually my daddy will pick us up around lunch hour and if I do not get to leave our home by that hour, I will start crying. Guess mommy & daddy already knew it by now that I love to go out. Cos it's kind of boring staying home whole day and doing nothing. While I stay at grandma's house being loved and pampered by Ah Gong & Ah Mah, Dad & Mom can take a break. Look how sensible I am at just 7 weeks old. haha. Recently I have learnt to appreciate those who has been taking care of me by giving them a cheeky gummy grin. ;) Mommy loves it! She got so happy and kept asking me to smile again and again. Of course, I smile to my mommy the most ! she deserves it. hehe

Shopping Spree before our Teagan's arrival

2007-11-30T22:31:00.000-08:00

SHOPPING SPREE BEFORE THE ARRIVAL OF OUR LITTLE PRINCE !

After Dinner at Coca restaurant on 4th Nov, we went on for a short shopping spree at Takashimaya and Paragon for some last min items before the arrival of Baby Teagan.

Wow ! Christmas is in the air ! Everywhere is so beautifully decorated and the atmosphere of Christmas just makes people smile. :) So excited & happy that we have a new member in our family this Christmas.

MORE DARLING TEAGAN PIX

2007-11-28T00:32:00.000-08:00

share with you all more of my pix okie.

BABY TEAGAN'S PIX

2007-11-28T00:20:00.000-08:00

Hey!i am 13 days old today. look at my pictures from my 4th or 5th day... Am I cute,adorable, handsome? hehehe.... Mommy said I am her little piggie boy "Xiao Zhu Zhu".

TESTIMONY OF BABY TEAGAN

2007-11-27T23:46:00.000-08:00

TESTIMONY OF BABY TEAGAN

My mommy Esther discovered she was pregnant on 22 Mar 2007 after doing her own test at home and that was 1 day after her birthday. She informed my Daddy about it and they went to the nearest GP in the evening together with my brother to confirm the test is correct and receive the Good News of Year 2007! hahaha. God has blessed them with another baby !

I was only about 4 weeks old.

Thereafter, mommy booked an appointment with KK Women & children hospital for the 1st appoint on 12 April. There they calculated my gestation and confirm my EDD is 17 Nov. After a few check ups, her gynae suggested that she go for FTS "First Trimester Screening" on 9 May to test for Down Syndrome as my mommy is not keen to go for any invasive test which carry risks of miscarriage cos she had a miscarriage in 2005. My parents certainly treasure me so much that they only want the best for me. Thank God for their love ! While doing this FTS scan, the Doctor press so hard on my mommy's tummy that i kept turning my head away, and the doctor 1st detected my nasal bone and then she pressed so hard the 2nd time and told my mum that I have a thick neckfold. So after that, my parents were told to wait while she calculate the risk. Guess wat ! the doctor said that my risk of Trisomy 21 is 1:16 ! My parents were quite shocked to hear of this but they just did not want to go for any further test as they do not want to take any risk to lose me.

However, God has given them the peace that surpass all understandings and they approached their close friends Aunty Rachel, Auntry Chris, Frank Kor Kor and their CGL Aaron to pray for me. Most importantly, they believe that if God is for them and no one can be against them and they keep their faith and believe that God will bless them with a healthy baby.

During the next appointment with her gynae, my mommy even told her that she has faith and she believes in MIRACLES and decline the aminio test which the gynae suggested because she doesnt want to be bothered by the anxieties to wait for the results if she proceed with the test, and most importantly, she know deep in her heart that God will turn the situation around if I really have down syndrome and the result is accurate. She chose to trust God that HE will bless them with a Healthy and NORMAL baby without down syndrome in every aspects. In order not to be affected by negative comments, she changed her gynae, and there and then, she contacted KK to ask for Dr Arthur Tseng who has attended to her during one of the emergencies that happened on 1st May. My mommy woke up in the morning with some spotting and Daddy rushed her to the A&E to check and ensure my heartbeat is still there.

Dr Arthur Tseng is a very friendly and handsome Doctor who is very patient and easy going. He doesnt rushed throught the consultation and is always very encouraging. Though he did not deny the calculation done by the other doctor but he want to ensure that they are prepared even if their baby has down syndrome. My mommy just want to be positive and carry on with her pregnancy feeling peaceful and filled with God's grace and joy. She enjoyed her pregnancy and so did I while I was inside her womb. Thank you Mommy for your love and never give me up. Thank you for the faith you have in JESUS and thank you all the aunties and Kor Kor I mentioned earlier for praying with my daddy & mommy, and the Faith that God has created me a healthy and cheerful baby. I am God's creation and I hope to be a blessings to my parents and family and those around us. Thank you God for helping me grow and develope well from a foetus to a full term baby.

Finally, on 14 Nov, during the LSCS, Dr Arthur Tseng told his operating theatre assistants that i am in high risk of down syndrome and do watch out for anything during the operation. At the point when Dr Arthur saw my face, he quickly tell my mommy the good news that her baby looks normal. My mommy said "Thank GOD" and then tears of JOY start flowing from her eyes.

Okie, seems I have been talking alot ya. How can a baby talk so much. hehe. Watch me grow ya.... I love you GOD. I love you Daddy & Mommy. GLORY TO GOD FOREVER !

ARRIVAL OF OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE BABY TEAGAN

2007-11-27T23:36:00.000-08:00

Hello everybody ! I am Baby Teagan. I have arrived at theKK Hospital by LSCS on 14 Nov afternoon and I am so blessed to be the 2nd baby BOY of my proud Daddy & Mommy. Thank you my brave mommy for giving birth to me through Caesarean section. Thank you Dr Arthur Tseng for doing such a wonderful job to deliver me out of my mommy's warm & comfortable belly. hehehee... Oops ! I forget to thank my Daddy Dino also for talking to me and praying for me all the time before i come out, and of course thank you my brother terry for reading Bible stories to me so often. hahaha :) Eveyone says I look like my brother Terry when he was a baby, let see if I look like him as i grow okie. Let's find out... :) Anyway, i am glad to look like my brother or my daddy or my mommy. I believe they are all good looking people in Jesus. AMEN. Thank God for His grace & blessings ! Hear me share more about my story in my next posting okie. See ya

CRAVINGS !!!

2007-11-27T23:28:00.000-08:00

YUM YUM Yummy Indian Curry & Tasty COCA Steamboat.

Greedy mommy was craving for Curry on 3rd Nov sat afternoon, so Daddy Dino suggested we have lunch at MUTHU CURRY @ suntec (our usual hangout on Sat afternoon before going service at Expo).

Look ! even Terry know how to enjoy Indian Curry. no wonder he can imitate the M1 ads "Hello...Indian Curry house" so well. :D

In order to satisfy my tastebud and not feeling guilty to eat so much before Baby Teagan's arrival in 10 day's time, we had steamboat at Mommy esther's favourite steamboat restaurant "COCA" at Ngee Ann city. Look at the steam comming out from the pot of tasty chicken soup! ;)

MY HOBBY & SKILL

2007-10-26T02:26:00.000-07:00

Does anyone know that my favourite pastime is KNITTING. Friends, if you want to learn from me,

am afraid I may not have time to teach cause it really takes time & patience to learn. Maybe when I become my own boss or retire someday, I will open a shop and then you can sign up for the course. Good idea ? heyheyhey

Anyway, share with you what I have knitted for my baby. Mix brown color VEST. Nice or not?
The other one, a combination of "blue,white & red" was what I have knitted for Terry 7 years ago. Nice right?

Now baby can wear it when he come out too. ;>)

LOOK AT THOSE TUMMIES ! COUNTING DOWN TO BABY'S ARRIVAL

2007-10-26T02:18:00.000-07:00

Haha look at my tummy ! Look at Daddy Dino's tummy too. He also pregnant la. 4 months already. hehehe. Cos he is eating with me all the time. Hope you visitors don't find these pics obscene okie. haha! Paisei to show you guys also but nvm la. Next time baby Teagan can see my tummy picture and know how it was when he was inside of me mah.

Time flies ya ! Our baby due date is just about 22 days away. :p I really have mixed feelings mannnn. Looking forward but also abit Kang Cheong. Cos dunoe he will break my water bag like his Ge Ge Terry or not. Or will he be a good boy and wait until the exact due date. Only God knows lor. hehe

2007-10-26T01:56:00.000-07:00

Would like to share these 2 very "encouraging" & "uplifting" songs with you visitors.
One of them is a Praise song and ther other is a Worship song. :D

Here it goes....
WORSHIP SONG - JESUS
Hands that hold the heavens
Hold my heart tonight
Love pierce through my darkness
Glorius Light
Words of Life eternal
Heal my broken soul
To Whom will I go
There’s no one else but You alone
JESUS, JESUS
No other Name, No one the same like You
The Truth, The Life, The Way
JESUS, JESUS
Glory & Praise
Our Voices we raise to You
The soon & coming King
You are the Christ
Son of the Living God
The Great I AM
I’ll follow you till the end

PRAISE SONG -GONNA BE ALRIGHT !
I found my meaning in You.
Your Cause is the reason why i live
Your Grace is teaching me how to give

I give my whole life to you
Your love is the reason why i sing
JESUS, YOU are my everything

Everynight, everyday, i don't have to worry, no I celebrate

All the things You've done in me
and it's gonna be alright
Cause You are in my life
Yes its gonna be alright
GONNA BE, GONNA BE, GONNA BE, GONNA BE ALRIGHT
and it's gonna be ALRIGHT
Cause Jesus You are my Light
and You have shown me the way
All of my troubles, all of my life
I give to YOU my KING

2007-10-18T00:54:00.000-07:00

Lazy mummy have not been able to update our blog coz simply too lazy to do anything. Ha..ha

Decided to just update a little bit by sharing what's going on lately... Our darling Terry fell sick on 11 Oct night and we brought him to see doctor, given MC on Friday 12 Oct and he stayed with "mama" (wai por) on Friday. Intended to send him to join O School dance session together with Children Church on Sat evening but guess he needs rest to recuperate..so he reluctantly stayed in-door with "mama" again while daddy & mommy proceed to church without him.

When we picked him up after service, guess what he says ? Our darling boy surprised us by saying "We should all put God first above all things". He just didnt feel too good for missing church that evening but we assured him that God understands, and he needs to stay home in order not to spread his fever to other kids in the children church. By doing that, he is just being a responsible kid and God is just as happy that he cares for others by doing that. Both Dino & I are feeling so blessed that our boy at this tender age can make such a wonderful remark and he knows we should put God first above all things and this shows that he is quite spiritually mature. What an encouraging word for us all as his parents ! Glory to God ! I can't help but to share with our visitors here in this blog. :>))) We are praying that next time our Baby Teagan will be as wonderful as his "GeGe Terry" as he grows and being nurtured at home by us & in church. Counting down to his arrival in about 4 weeks time.

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before we go off, managed to get the friendly waitress to take a family pic for us. :))

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this is wat we had. Daddy had his Sirlion steak dinner Course, i had Scallop & pollack roe(pink fish roe) Spaghetti serve with Japanese dressing dinner set too. The appetiser is so beautifully served, 2 lightly pan-fried prawns surrounded by bits of vege in a nice special sauce, followed by yummy green salad, main dish and heavenly dessert, and i had a guava juice too while daddy had his usual after meal coffee. Had not been here for quite sometime, thought it would be great to give baby Teagan a treat to enjoy such yummy fine cuisine while inside mommy's tummy. Will definitely bring him here when he's out to taste the real thingy. Terry had his own ala carte plate of Japanese Spaghetti with Chicken, mushroom & bamboo shoot served with special sauce. he could finish the whole plate within a few minutes. Thought a dinner set might be too much for him.

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30 sep, sunday evening, we celebrated our 8th Wedding Anniversary together with our darling Terry at Angus Steak House @ Ngee Ann City. Very nice ambience with fine cuisine. Costly but yummy !

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A cosy family of 3 plus 1 in mommy's tummy who is on the way.....Counting down & looking forward to the arrival of our new bundle of joy Teagan in a few weeks time...a di di for Terry.

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more pictures of this fast growing young gentleman...

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Terry joined Kids modelling at the age of 3. Stylish indeed !

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At home with little Doggie Balloon, his pet.

2 year old Terry making face at the camera :o)

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Daddy & Mommy with cute Terry. A Sweet Family of 3.....

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Our chubby chub's pics in the 1st few months..... Thank God for blessing us with such a cheerful baby.

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Our Millenium Baby TERRY borned in July 2000 !

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Counting down & looking forward to the arrival of our new bundle of joy. A didi for Terry.