so long never post anything here.. mommy has been very upset and depressed lately. I could see that she is very affected by my grandparent's attitude. Both daddy & mommy are very upset over my grandparent's unreasonable and ridiculous behaviour. Don't understand why they are so unfair. they just simply think that their daughters are great and even my daddy is their only son they dont treasure him. Daddy was very upset and told mommy that let's not be bothered by them anymore. cos they simply never care for our feelings. Daddy had repeatedly told his parents that my mommy was just feeling hurt and not angry but they just keep repeating that xiao gu did not do anything why my daddy & mommy want to create any troubles. In my grandparent's eyes, my dad & mom like to create troubles in their family...but they are totally WRONG! Even both my ge ge & myself know that they are not. If it's not because of my xiao gu's attitude towards my mommy and my grandmother still defend daughter without a good reason, my mommy wont be so hurt. In fact my mommy cried a few times over this incident. She is just very very hurt and wrote 2 letters to my grandparents, one to my grandfather, and the other letter to my grandmother. I tink it's good for you readers to know what my mommy wrote to them. even daddy agrees and mommy did seek my daddy's consent before proceeding as her intention is to make peace among the family by just telling the truth to my grandparents, hoping they will understand how she feel as their daughter-in law and hope that they will really do something to make the family closer. But to our horror, the opposite happens and now, they made my daddy even more upset.. What a pity that the letters are unable to be posted because one was typed and the other one was handwritten in chinese and cannot be copied into this page. Sigh! why are adults so complicated ?? Anyway, my daddy & mommy both decided to leave things as it is and just move on with our own life and let God handle the situation because there's nothing they can do because if our grandparents insists their thinking and mentality is correct, and refuse to do something, what's the point of talking and pretending nothing had happen. My mommy is deeply hurt. My daddy is upset. so what to do...Well,only God knows.
Thank God that now, both my me & my brother are being looked after by a new babysitter Mdm Wee. She is a nice lady. I like her. Hope she will look after me on long term basis. I can see that mommy likes Mdm wee also and they could get along very well. Just hope Mdm wee can convince her sister about not able to help her look after her grandchild because she has committed to look after me & my ge ge terry. Mommy will be very very upset if mdm wee cant look after us anymore. Mdm Wee told my mommy about her sister call her up on the 2nd day of taking care of us, and my mommy was so shocked and her mood was badly affected. She was very upset that she cried again over this because she feels that it is not easy to look for a baby sitter who is reliable and kind to her kids. So we really pray very hard that Mdm Wee's sister will be understanding so that Mdm wee can continue to look after en & ze. God pleaseeee HELP US !
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