HaPPy NeW YeaR 2009 to all readers of our Blog. Imagine how fast it is that 2008 is gone.
Lately i have not updated this blog as been too preoccupied with family & work. These days...every evening have to pick up Terry & Teagan from 2 different venues after work. But really have to thank God for all His wonderful plans for us. Terry to be happily settled down at the Right place for him "Baptist student care" and Teagan being look after by the Right Babysitter..Madam Wee. We are really so happy that Teagan is perfectly well taken care by aunty who is so good and loving to him. Teagan has put on much weight eversince he is being babysitted by Mdm Wee from Sep onwards.
2008 has been a really stressful year for me & Dino. It was lovely in the beginning after the arrival of Teagan in Nov 2007...the first few months of 2008 was indeed great ! My in-laws were very supportive and they helped us look after Teagan and love the 2 kids very much. We appreciate them very much and we could get along very well. When Dino's mom fall sick in June and diagnosed with cancer, I was very shocked in the beginning and felt so sorry for her and I asked God why a good woman like her will kena this sickness and Dino & I also wanted to bring her to church but she is very resistant about it. We also suggested to get a maid to look after Teagan at her place and she can just be there to supervise the maid and our intention is to lighten her workload of looking after Teagan, and the maid can help in cooking and household chores at her place as well. But unfortunately, our good intention is not recognised and was turned down by dino's father..so no choice. Dino's mom suggested that we let her neighbour look after Teagan and because we know she loves Teagan and want to have a chance to see him everyday if her neighbour look after him, we agree and accept her idea just to make her feel happy. Unfortunately, sometime in July or Aug, the relationship between us & Dino's parents started to become "bad" because of 2 nasty women. These 2 women are none but Dino's very own sisters. They are really good in acting...so good that I think they should be labled"The great Pretenders". If not becos of them, the relationship between dino's parents & us will remain good.
Towards the last few months of 2008, we have been reflecting and feeling very upset that why our relationship with Dino's parents has become a distant and why they never realise that their daughters are the one who has tore us apart from them. Why are they so supportive towards the 2 women are are married off and still come back and be kpo all the time ? What kind of parents they are ? Dino is their only son.. Don't they know it themselves. Sorry I have to speak in this manner but this is a true fact that I just have to speak up. Dino told me that there is no genuine love in his family. In their mind, money is everything. There are many incidents that made us feel that money is more important to them than the love of humanity and relationships.
It's really very pain and hurting to know the true facts that they are such people. I am coping well because afterall, they are just my "in-laws" but for Dino, he feel extremely hurt and upset because they are his immediate family...he told me that they have changed very much and become very materialistic. That's why whatever we do can never satisfy them...so what can we do.
For frens and my own family members who know about the incident, all supported us very much and feel that there's really nothing we have to do since people are like that and it's beyond our control. We shall not let this hurt stay in our hearts anymore and we decided to let them go... as far as possible. We also pray and hope that these people could kindly just leave us alone too. What's the point of pretending and acting ? If they dislike us, do let us go rather than to act act and act. Dont they feel tired of acting. THey dont but we are...no thanks to acting... PLEASEEEE....we have enough. Pls torlong torlong give us a break. Dont call me "da sao" anymore and at the same time give me that nasty stare. I feel even more hurt when such people call me "da sao" just for the sake of calling me in front of the parents while they dont really accept me as their sister-in-law in their hearts. What's the point of addressing me "da sao" and then give me a nasty look and later just ignore and remain silence. One is silent but the other who tried very hard to talk but actually she is only talking to Terry just to mislead her own parents to make them feel that she is being very nice. I really want to laugh. They dont even address their "brother", then how come they have a da sao ?? What a joke man.
So anyway, they want to call me da sao, i just answer them "em" thats all just as a response. But in my heart, i know that I know i am not a da sao in people's eye and I dont give it a damn anyway. It sounds like I am not forgiving them.. well, but it's ok. To me, i have no more feelings..let alone talk abt forgiving. I dont think they worth anything for me to feel angry so that's nothing to be forgiven at all. Hahaha.
After I post this into our blog, I shall not talk abt them anymore. The reason for writing this is to help myself ease the pain once again that these people had done to me. So thank you that 2008 is coming to an end.
Well, we are so glad that 2008 is over and we welcome 2009 with wide open arms and also believe that God will pour down his Blessings of Abundance to us thru His Windows that is wide open for us too. Lord, we are waiting for that miracle that you are going to bless us with very soon and we cant wait to bless those we love too.
As this Blog was created to dedicate to God, we want to take this opportunity to Thank the Lord and we look forward to a awesome & bountiful year of 2009.
BELIEVING IN MIRACLES
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